Whines! Groans! Cheers! Jeers! Wringing of hands and dire warnings abound...all over the internet, with particular targeting of "Social Media." THAT is a misnomer, if I ever saw one...it is NOT social and it is NOT civil. Social media isn't even truthful, except seemingly by accident. Not many "thinking" people disagree as to the falsehoods that abound on the internet.
The same complaint(s) are becoming rampant regarding the media, with particular attention on what is euphemistically called the "news" media. The term "fake news" appears everywhere, both truthfully and falsely applied so often as to make the label ineffective as either a warning or a label (truth in anything, including advertising and public relations, is a rarity).
Politicians and their supporters (does that end up labeling over 90% of our population?) add to the lack of candor, having expanded their falsehoods from campaign promises to include actions and positions actually taken while holding office.
So...is this unacceptable? If so, to who (or is it "to whom,"...I never did get that right)? Is there any desire...a heartfelt desire...to change this and return to a more truthful existence for all of us?
It would be nice to believe that such a desire exists. But...how? Here are a few ideas to consider...and feel free to think up additional and (hopefully) even more effective ways to accomplish the goal.
First, the so-called "news" media have to be forced to tell the truth and/or label their lies as lies.
Second, internet posting of any kind has to be able to be tracked to the person or organization that is commenting.
Third, all media (including that labeled as "news") has to be made legally responsible for falsehoods. It is time to, in the interest of Justice, to eliminate the qualification or claim of "absence of malice." If a person in private life can be legally made responsible for libel and/or slander, so should the "news," whether it be broadcast or print.
Is there any real reason why our people, our country, our government cannot pass laws that require all comments, all stories, all reports be attributed to real people and real organizations so they can be held accountable? Is there any reason why anyone should be free to repeat slander or libel just by quoting another person? That should be unlawful unless the person or organization repeating the story has independently verified it with attribution...not anonymously.
Why shouldn't a person that defames another be held accountable and not allowed to hide behind anonymity of the internet? Require that identification of those posting be available, so that there can be confrontation, both personal and legal. I see comments on "social" media and in stories that, if the commenter were made public and had to repeat the comments face to fact, would never say the things that they have posted or written.
As I grew up, I was advised to live my life, and speak and write, as if everything I did and said could appear on the front page of the newspaper tomorrow; think and consider before speaking or writing or acting. So many today thing there are no such things as consequences. Or, if there are, that someone ELSE will suffer them. It is time to stop that thinking. Time for the chickens to come home to roost...
If the voters demand this and insist that the internet providers not be allowed to censure but that all who use the internet be identifiable and legally liable for comments and statements, we can again enforce a degree of civility. But...we have to want to accomplish that and take action to demand that. Will you?
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Monday, November 25, 2019
Sunday, August 9, 2015
"Trump" is an idea, an attitude, but not a President
I must admit that our Federal Government has infuriated me for a minimum of six Presidential terms of office. We have descended morally, financially and civilly. I have watched misbehavior in the White House (always, I am sure, present to some degree at different times) become endorsed as acceptable and understandable and not cause for censure by the multitudes. Our Federal Representative and employees have shown disregard for responsibly balancing the federal budget and for actually working an honest work day properly for some pretty good wages. And now we see all our Elected officials lying with unprecedented frequency with not one hint of embarrassment.
But when anyone shouts out in anger and disappoint, stating these facts out loud, the media and multitudes shout them down as being "disrespectful." Seriously? Such behavior warrants respect? In what Universe?
And into this remarkable state of affairs comes one Donald Trump. He doesn't work for people; people work for him. That has been true for most of his life and he has made money...a lot of money. He has gotten quite used to his word being law and, to quote a recent, once successful actor, "winning."
He has, like many of us, become unhappy with our government. And he states his anger with no filter. What is most wonderful to many of us is that the media actually reports these comments. And these are comments we have made for years to each other and not one reporter, not one elected official has ever done more than nod in what was supposed to be seen as sympathy, ... and then ignore us and our anger. To see the consternation on the part of media at this is cathartic...it makes me feel wonderful at not being able to shut down his comments.
So...why am I uneasy?
Because anger, when unchecked, becomes the ignition for mob attitude and behavior; such anger becomes the rationale and excuse for excesses that go beyond those that are the immediate source of that anger. It can be dangerous...like watching a back-fire you thought would stop the big blaze suddenly turn into an even bigger danger. Be careful what you wish for...
Trump's comments are expressions of frustration...but they are not solutions. When asked for specifics, he replies with a torrent of comments which all come down to two things: "I'll build a wall" and "Trust Me." The first is only a first step to protect our borders and is by no means comprehensive. "Trust Me"????
We are completing 6 1/2 years of an administration that was elected on the basis of "Hope" and "Change." Everyone I have spoken to interpreted those words as meaning what each individual saw as hope and as change. Turned out that no one ever actually demanded that our "President" tell us how he defined those terms. That has not turned out very well.
Now I watch a firebrand and hear him saying "trust me." I don't think so, Skippy! Been down that road before and I won't do it again.
But that ignition is still operating and I watch, hear, and read the tremendous emotion of his followers, acolytes and minions declaring that "the whole thing needs to be turned down." They are the reverse image of the followers of our current "President"; facts mean nothing, questions are not allowed, discussion is useless, and behavior is crude and uncivil. Any challenge is perceived as personal, not related to policy of accumulation of fact.
We have a President right now that sees his power as exponential, by-passing Congress on everything, including items that are clearly withing the purview of Congress; who is so thin-skinned that whenever anything...anything...he says is challenged in any way, you can see the rise in both blood pressure and pulse rate. Mr. Trump has the same reaction to any challenge, only his verbal skills are far more crude and direct; Mr. Obama will internalize that and then seek retribution in some way that does not leave any evidence.
I don't want a hot head in the oval office. I don't want a liar in the oval office. I am looking for a President that is honest and has a sense of NOT being the smartest person in the world; one who will always welcome questions and disagreement...both of which expand understanding and lead to better decisions.
Does anyone who has watched the ideas and attitude that is "Trump" feel that such attributes apply?
But when anyone shouts out in anger and disappoint, stating these facts out loud, the media and multitudes shout them down as being "disrespectful." Seriously? Such behavior warrants respect? In what Universe?
And into this remarkable state of affairs comes one Donald Trump. He doesn't work for people; people work for him. That has been true for most of his life and he has made money...a lot of money. He has gotten quite used to his word being law and, to quote a recent, once successful actor, "winning."
He has, like many of us, become unhappy with our government. And he states his anger with no filter. What is most wonderful to many of us is that the media actually reports these comments. And these are comments we have made for years to each other and not one reporter, not one elected official has ever done more than nod in what was supposed to be seen as sympathy, ... and then ignore us and our anger. To see the consternation on the part of media at this is cathartic...it makes me feel wonderful at not being able to shut down his comments.
So...why am I uneasy?
Because anger, when unchecked, becomes the ignition for mob attitude and behavior; such anger becomes the rationale and excuse for excesses that go beyond those that are the immediate source of that anger. It can be dangerous...like watching a back-fire you thought would stop the big blaze suddenly turn into an even bigger danger. Be careful what you wish for...
Trump's comments are expressions of frustration...but they are not solutions. When asked for specifics, he replies with a torrent of comments which all come down to two things: "I'll build a wall" and "Trust Me." The first is only a first step to protect our borders and is by no means comprehensive. "Trust Me"????
We are completing 6 1/2 years of an administration that was elected on the basis of "Hope" and "Change." Everyone I have spoken to interpreted those words as meaning what each individual saw as hope and as change. Turned out that no one ever actually demanded that our "President" tell us how he defined those terms. That has not turned out very well.
Now I watch a firebrand and hear him saying "trust me." I don't think so, Skippy! Been down that road before and I won't do it again.
But that ignition is still operating and I watch, hear, and read the tremendous emotion of his followers, acolytes and minions declaring that "the whole thing needs to be turned down." They are the reverse image of the followers of our current "President"; facts mean nothing, questions are not allowed, discussion is useless, and behavior is crude and uncivil. Any challenge is perceived as personal, not related to policy of accumulation of fact.
We have a President right now that sees his power as exponential, by-passing Congress on everything, including items that are clearly withing the purview of Congress; who is so thin-skinned that whenever anything...anything...he says is challenged in any way, you can see the rise in both blood pressure and pulse rate. Mr. Trump has the same reaction to any challenge, only his verbal skills are far more crude and direct; Mr. Obama will internalize that and then seek retribution in some way that does not leave any evidence.
I don't want a hot head in the oval office. I don't want a liar in the oval office. I am looking for a President that is honest and has a sense of NOT being the smartest person in the world; one who will always welcome questions and disagreement...both of which expand understanding and lead to better decisions.
Does anyone who has watched the ideas and attitude that is "Trump" feel that such attributes apply?
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