Showing posts with label greed. Show all posts
Showing posts with label greed. Show all posts
Saturday, February 19, 2011
Wisconsin
Labels:
balanced budget,
civil disobedience,
deficits,
greed,
Leftists,
majority,
Unions,
Wisconsin
Friday, December 17, 2010
Children's avarice is NOT just a Christmas thing...
Articles keep popping up at this time of the year either to complain about or explain the "I want more" attitude on the part of so many children as we get closer to Christmas...and to Hanukkah, and any other time of celebration that once only called for one or two gifts. And often there is the talk of different ideas of how to instill a sense of gratitude.
Well, it is impossible to instill a sense of gratitude in anyone when the good things in and about their lives seem to be a natural entitlement. And that is what children today have been raised to expect...at least most of them. And that results from a faulty definition of "love" in the minds and hearts of their parents.
The vast majority of parents love their children. My parents loved me and, perhaps to a lesser degree than parents today, made the same mistake. They had gone through the depression and knew extreme hardship. They wanted to protect me from that kind of deprivation. So...they spoiled me...at least in part. I got more stuff at Christmas than I needed. And if I really wanted something during the year, with time, effort and whining, I usually got it eventually.
But, and I thank them now for this (as some of you will understand, I felt much abused at the time), I was required to contribute to the family well-being: cutting the lawn (it wasn't a power mower) during the summer, clearing the walkway and steps when it snowed during the winter, vacuuming the house twice a week (both my parents worked), preparing dinner so it was ready for the stove or oven when my parents got home. I was raised to understand that life involved work and that work was to be performed enthusiastically, not grudgingly. The plight of children around the world and even her in America was pointed out to me often and I was made to understand just how blessed I was to have a home, clothes, parents who cared, schooling and unfettered opportunity to succeed. I might not have liked it, but I got it. I did have gratitude. Still do. And...I think my children do also.
These days I see kids arguing with their parents...and surviving. I see grandchildren disrespecting their grandparents. I see kids acting like rules were made for others, not them. I see young adults clueless about the definition, much less the concept, of "consequences", which they think is something that happens to "others." And NOBODY seems to think that that is unacceptable.
Forget Christmas. Deal with the rest of the year. If we do, Christmas, Hanukkah, and any other celebration will take care of itself...show that you "really" love your children...say, "NO," and mean it.
Well, it is impossible to instill a sense of gratitude in anyone when the good things in and about their lives seem to be a natural entitlement. And that is what children today have been raised to expect...at least most of them. And that results from a faulty definition of "love" in the minds and hearts of their parents.
The vast majority of parents love their children. My parents loved me and, perhaps to a lesser degree than parents today, made the same mistake. They had gone through the depression and knew extreme hardship. They wanted to protect me from that kind of deprivation. So...they spoiled me...at least in part. I got more stuff at Christmas than I needed. And if I really wanted something during the year, with time, effort and whining, I usually got it eventually.
But, and I thank them now for this (as some of you will understand, I felt much abused at the time), I was required to contribute to the family well-being: cutting the lawn (it wasn't a power mower) during the summer, clearing the walkway and steps when it snowed during the winter, vacuuming the house twice a week (both my parents worked), preparing dinner so it was ready for the stove or oven when my parents got home. I was raised to understand that life involved work and that work was to be performed enthusiastically, not grudgingly. The plight of children around the world and even her in America was pointed out to me often and I was made to understand just how blessed I was to have a home, clothes, parents who cared, schooling and unfettered opportunity to succeed. I might not have liked it, but I got it. I did have gratitude. Still do. And...I think my children do also.
These days I see kids arguing with their parents...and surviving. I see grandchildren disrespecting their grandparents. I see kids acting like rules were made for others, not them. I see young adults clueless about the definition, much less the concept, of "consequences", which they think is something that happens to "others." And NOBODY seems to think that that is unacceptable.
Forget Christmas. Deal with the rest of the year. If we do, Christmas, Hanukkah, and any other celebration will take care of itself...show that you "really" love your children...say, "NO," and mean it.
Labels:
Avarice,
children of illegals,
Christmas,
entitlement,
gifts,
greed,
Hanukkah,
Holiday,
love,
respect
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a minority results to mob rule, the leave open the
possibility of angering the majority. If that happens,
and the MAJORITY riots, the minority will find itself
overwhelmed by its own unleashed lawlessness as a
result.
These greedy people, enjoying a much better lifestyle
because of their higher level of benefits and pay,
achieved not by work but by group extortion, think
they are entitled to keep that higher status at the
expense of the taxpayer. Even as they complain
about failure to tax the "rich", they ignore the fact
that to the rest of the taxpaying public THEY are
the rich.
As for Wisconsin, the changes that they are asked
to ENDURE (yeah...some hardship) is to pay HALF
of the contribution private sector folks have to pay
for retirement and healthcare. Some hardship. And
their rights are protected BY LAW, NOT the UNIONS.
So that union contract adds little to their protections
as workers.
Keep the National Democratic Party's out-of-state
infiltrators there...it helps confirm the nature of the
Leftists in this country and reveals them for just what
they are...opportunists.